WHEN A BLINDSIDING BREAKUP
BREAKS MORE THAN JUST YOUR HEART.

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Hello, there.

I’m Gina.

I’m a trauma-informed breakup and betrayal-trauma coach.

I support women who’ve been blindsided, discarded, or slowly abandoned by someone they trusted. The kind of ending that doesn’t just hurt, it shakes your sense of safety and reality.

I know what it feels like to have the ground pulled out from under you.

I’ve lived through the shock of being suddenly left by someone I loved deeply, and I remember how disorienting it was to try to function when nothing made sense.

That’s why this work isn’t theoretical for me. It’s personal. And it’s made for people whose pain is bigger than “just a breakup.”

Where you might be at…

1

EMOTIONAL WHIPLASH

You’ve just gone through a sudden, devastating breakup or discard that’s left you questioning everything. Their behavior flipped, the story changed overnight, and now your body is in shock — looping, panicked, unable to find solid ground or any real closure.

2

DROWNING IN THE AFTERMATH

It’s been a few weeks or months since the blindsiding breakup. You’re exhausted from trying to hold it together. Sleep, eating, and focus are all over the place. You’re caught between grief, rage, and disbelief, replaying it all and trying to understand how someone who once felt safe could become a source of so much harm.

3

READY TO REBUILD

The initial crisis has passed, but the impact hasn’t. You’re still living with attachment trauma, triggers, and waves of abandonment grief. You’re ready to understand the patterns that led here, rebuild your sense of safety, and learn how to trust yourself again, so you don’t ignore red flags or disappear inside a relationship ever again.

If any of these sound like you, I’m here to support you.

You don’t have to keep doing this alone or piecing it together at 2 a.m. from random articles and TikToks. My work is slow, grounded, and nervous-system aware — no rushing, no pressure, no “just move on” advice.

If you’re wanting support that meets you where you actually are, you can schedule a first session below.

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Client Experiences After Blindsiding Breakups

  • "Working with Gina was truly the life line I needed. I made such big steps in my healing journey because of her support, knowledge, and expertise. I was able to understand the impact of what had happened to me, integrate it, and process it because of her help. Gina provided such a high quality of coaching, with specialized support that was so important in healing this type of trauma - I would recommend her to anyone in need.

    - Holly

  • Our sessions have left me feeling more healed, self- aware, and open-hearted than I did when we first met. I am looking forward to whatever the future brings me, which feels like a big deal to me! Thank you for your support in getting me here.

    Chelsea

  • Gina, you have helped me so much in this situation. I honestly think I'd still be miserably stuck in this without your gentle guidance. thank vou

    Kristen

  • "Very fulfilling. Gina has been an incredible listener with immense attention to detail. She has provided a judgement free environment where I felt heard and safe to discuss my pain and my trauma. The resources that were provided to me were very helpful and offered me a lot of necessary information to ensure that I am on the right path to healing. Thanks to Gina, I am now able to see that I am not alone, I am not crazy and my feelings and hurt are valid. I was able to process the impact this person has left on my body and soul and was able to finally put my thoughts on paper and close this horrific chapter once and for all."

    - Katerina Maevska